Rant Session: False Assumptions and Gender Discrimination

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So far, I haven't had much progress with this blog. I'm not too worried. I need to put a little bit more effort to actually attract some audience. Anyway, this is the first non-makeup related post I'm making. This entry doesn't necessarily bear any relevance. I just need to get things out there for a change, if you get what I mean.

Most of you obviously don't know me yet. Well, I'll let you in on one thing. I'm not exactly the girliest girl you would encounter in this world. Sure, I do makeup and stuff like that. Actually, I have a face full of makeup most of the time. However, you would typically see me wearing boy's graphic tees, jeans, my battered Converse shoes, and my favourite beanie. You wouldn't see me wearing frilly dresses, headband, and ribbons. I seldom paint my nails. If I do, they're always black. You wouldn't see me with fancy braided hair. [Well, I don't have enough hair to braid, anyway.] As a matter of fact, I'm too uninterested in fixing up my hair, I cut it so short that I haven't combed it in months. Yeah. That's me.

Some people thing I'm just too sloppy and lazy to look after myself. It has nothing to do with my habits. In fact, I'm a bit OC about myself. I am far from sloppy. I take time to cleanse myself until I'm practically glowing. The only difference you could point out is that I typically use men's shampoo, if not, then a unisex one. [Yes. In our modern society, even shampoo is gender exclusive. Can't a woman enjoy the fresh, clean scent of a man's shampoo? Can't a man enjoy the fun scents of women's conditioner? Why do women get to have all the fun with scents?] Aside from that, I dress up properly and I make sure that I am presentable to polite society. My hair? Don't judge me. Seriously, why comb it? First of all, it wouldn't make a difference even if I did. Second, umm, didn't I just mention I always wear a beanie? So, why should I bother? So, that's false assumption #1: If she doesn't showcase any "normal" girl habits, she is sloppy and lazy.

Another thing about me, I always hang out with guys. Why? One, they are fun. Two, they remind me of my brother (I'm pretty close with my big bro). Three, boys have less drama. I never really found joy in the company of women. Now, now, calm down, my fellow women. I'm not judging you. However, let's face it, girls. Girl friends and female BFFs are best for those "sensitive" or "private" moments. It feels a lot more comfortable to cry on the shoulder of you best girl friend rather than open up to a guy. Guys, we're not saying you're insensitive. However, women just have a certain...well, "women's touch". The point is, there aren't any limitations, really. It is just a matter of personal preference. So, if you can count on people of your own gender, the, why not with your opposite? If you prefer crying on a guy's shoulder and wresting with your pretty bestie, then, so be it! Nobody should judge. Go with what makes you feel comfortable. My previous examples were just based on general majority of scenarios. [Seriously, though. Guys, I wouldn't mind crying on your shoulders. As long as you don't hit me for drenching your shirt.]

In my case, just because I hang out with guys most of the time, I get all these negative comments from people. That leads me to false assumptions #2 and #3. F.A.#2: If a woman surrounds herself with guys, she's an attention seeking flirt. F.A.#3: If a woman surrounds herself with guys and acts like she's one of them, she's either a tomboy or a lesbian. People, please. Boys are fun! They are my bros for life! [R, M, J, and A, you guys know who you are. I miss you guys. :P ]

Now, this one is my personal favourite. (*ahem*sarcasm*ahem*) False Assumption #4: If a woman does things that guys do, she has no class, no manners, no self-control, probably gender-confused, and most of all, a disgrace and a disappointment to the women in society. *sniff* Why are the people of society so mean? :'( Anyway, regarding this point, I am just deeply saddened by this. Nowadays, women are given empowerment. Women are now encouraged to live independently. Why? Well, women are not useless creatures. We are not trying to out-perform males or anything like that. Guys, don't you like a little helping hand? Admit it, it's unfair to keep doing all the work, right? Right.

On a personal note, I am really offended by this discrimination. I get the point. I don't dress in a feminine manner. I don't act "lady-like" [but I'm not trashy or wild! I just don't have those typical mannerisms associated with females]. I also don't have a girly laugh. [Seriously, must we make laughs gender exclusive, too?] I have interests in hobbies associated with males. I have male-ish habits. [I want to try archery. I want to take up Game Development. I would parkour if I could. I'm on my way to learning how to ride a skateboard. I don't know how to make friendship bracelets. I'm not the best cook, so don't expect to find me in the kitchen. I'm pretty much clueless with chores. I play the guitar. I don't know how to play a violin or the piano. I know how to do a tie for a suit. I get overwhelmed by the type of clothes women have. I use men's fragrances. I would take you down and wrestle you just because that's always fun. I tease people a lot. I don't get hurt when someone teases me. Blue is just blue to me, it only varies from light blue, blue, to dark blue. I don't know the difference between Ocean blue and Water Blue. I could go on forever about this, but I'll spare you from my boring life facts.]

Basically, all I'm trying to say is that not everything has to be gender exclusive. Leave that to the factor of using tampons and other unmentionable apparatus. Iykwim. The rest of the stuff? Let's not complicate things. Let's just have Anti-dandruff shampoo. Let's take away the For Men, For Women concept. Society thinks that a concealer that says "For Men" is automatically not "gay". People, it's still a concealer. It conceals. Whether it says "For Men" or not, it is never gay. Also, even if someone is gay, that shouldn't be a problem. [I won't rant about gay concepts. Yet. I don't want to make this post into a novel. Yet. :P] And girls, go on. Wear your boyfriend's Rolex watch. [You know you want to.] It's not "unlady-like" to wear it. It's a watch. It tells you the time. Wear it. It's fabulous.

I know a lot of people will disagree with me on this issue. I'm not going to judge your opinions. To each his own. That's what I'm trying to point out, right? Freedom? Liberty? Acceptance? Yeah. That's why I'm encouraging everyone in society to just embrace change. If you have nothing good to say to somebody, keep your words to yourself. You wouldn't gain anything from hurting somebody else's feelings. So, the next time you see a girl riding a skateboard or a guy who dyes his hair, don't jump to conclusions and make false assumptions. No matter what you think they are, there is only one fact that remains true: They are humans, just like you. [Or maybe not. Aliens are among us. :P]



So, that's it for my rant. Obviously, you didn't enjoy that. So, thanks for dropping by.

Pink and Gray Eye Makeup Tutorial: 2 Variations

Personally, I am not very fond of pink. I tend to lean more towards darker tones. However, when I passed by a certain clothing boutique, I saw this gorgeous cocktail dress that was a beautiful combination of soft gray and light pink. The tones just gave me the perfect inspiration for my very first tutorial. Alright, let’s get to it!

First, you’re going to need the following. [You don’t necessarily need to use the products I am using. Just take reference from the photos and use whatever you have.]

1. Aido Classic Makeup Set [or any palette/individual eyeshadows you have that consist of a frosty off-white shade and a matte black shade]
2. Ever Bilena Eye Pencils [or any black&brown pencil eyeliners, as long as they are blendable]
3. ELF Eyelid Primer [or any eye primer/eyeshadow base]
4. San San Create-Your-Own Eyeshadow singles [matte neutral brown, frosty pink, frosty gunmetal         gray, frosty black shades]
5. Quianyu Eyeshadow Palettes [shimmery white and matte hot pink shades]
6. Essence Long Lasting Eyeliner 01 Black Fever [or any long lasting pencil/gel eyeliner]
7. BYS Eyeliner Neon Pink [any neon pink pencil eyeliner/eyeshadow]
8. L.A. Colors Jumbo Eye Pencil CP401 Sea Shells [white eyeliner/shadow]
9. Aido Classic Liquid Eyeliner [any black liquid eyeliner that can make precise lines]
10. San San Age-Defense Mascara in 01 Black [your favourite black mascara]
11. San San HD Concealer 01 Beige [any concealer]


For this tutorial, I made 2 variations of the eye makeup. The first one is a very wearable look that isn't too bold. In the second one, I just added a few details and defined some things to make the look a bit bolder for those who prefer a more graphic design.

STEP 1: 

• Start with a primed eyelid. 
• Since we're using frosty and dark colours, you might want to finish your eye makeup before putting on concealer and foundation. That way, you wouldn't ruin your base makeup with any fallouts. 

STEP 2: 

• Using a brown eyeliner pencil, outline your crease. You can place it above your natural crease if you prefer a bigger eye makeup look. 

STEP 3: 

• Blend the line upwards and soften it. You can use a brush, Q-tip, or a clean finger for this step. 
• Blend it further using a matte brown eyeshadow. 

STEP 4: 

• Using a black eyeliner pencil, draw a thin line underneath the blended brown line. This will serve a a guide and definition. 

STEP 5: 

• Blend the line to soften it and extent it outwards into a slight wing. It doesn't have to be neat just yet. You will have the opportunity to fix it up later. 

STEP 6: 

• Apply your frosty pink eyeshadow by patting it on, utilizing the foiling method. [Foiling method is basically applying your eyeshadows/pigments with a wet brush. This is done so that the colours are more vibrant and long lasting.] 

STEP 7 - STEP 8: 

• Again, using the foiling method, take some of the matte hot pink eyeshadow and place it on both the inner and outer corners of the eye. 
• Blend and soften the the colours to marry the two pinks together, but make sure you don't cover up the frosty pink colour at the centre of the lids. 

STEP 9: 

• Now, take some sort of shimmery white eyeshadow and place just a little tiny bit on top of the frosty pink. Just pat it on. Again, DO NOT cover up the frosty pink. The purpose of doing this is to add dimension to the look. See how round and 3D the lid looks in the 9th photo? This is very helpful when the colours you use are frosty/shimmer and matte. It create BALANCE. :) 

STEP 10: 

• Using a neon pink eye pencil, line your lower lashline. 

STEP 11: 

• Take a little bit of the frosty pink colour again and use it to blend out the harsh neon pink eyeliner. 

STEP 12: 

• Pack on the frosty gray eyeshadow up until the black line you have drawn from STEP 4. Now, you will understand why I told you to place the black liner UNDER the brown one. It sets the boundary so that you don't place the gray where it's not supposed to go. 
• Use an angled eyeliner brush for this step. Blend the frosty gray eyeshadow and wing it out. This time, make it as neat as possible. this is the time to fix up any mistakes from STEP 5. 

STEP 13: 

• Using the frosty black shade, darken the gray just on the edges. This will give it a smokey effect. Blend this shade well. 

STEP 14: 

• Time to matte up. Using the black matte shade, outline the shape of the eye makeup. Again, this adds to the smokey effect, but don't blend this one out too much. We want a nice and defined shape. 

STEP 15: 

• Now, use a fluffy brush for this step. Select an off white shade. This will serve as your highlight and transition shade. Place this on your brow bone, down until the top of the matte black. Now, blend the off-white shade just a little bit into the black. This will create a soft, even transition of colours. You shouldn't be able to see harsh lines from where your black ends and where your highlight starts. 

STEP 16: 

• Using a long lasting waterproof eyeliner pencil/gel liner, line your upper waterline. For makeup newbies, this is called tightlining. 

STEP 17: 

• Line your inner rims/lower waterline. 

STEP 18: 

• Using a liquid/gel eyeliner, line your upper lashline. Wing it out however you want to. 

STEP 19 - STEP 21: 

• Curl your lashes. (I used the San San Eyelash curler) 
• Apply mascara. Preferably, a volumizing one. 
• [This step is optional, but it does give a flirty effect.] Put on some false lashes. I opted for a more natural type of falsies. (The ones I'm using are bought from Japan. They are made from real human hair. You don't have to use that kind, thought. Synthetic ones will do just fine.) 

Now, you can choose to leave it all like that and just go ahead and do the rest of your makeup. However, if you want to take it up a notch, proceed to steps 22 - 23. 

STEP 22: 

• Using concealer and a concealer brush, conceal your dark circles and at the same time, use the concealer to define the edges, make the wing sharper, etc. What I did was I sharpened the eyeshadow edges and followed the shape of the liquid eyeliner wing. [I didn't take a picture of the process. Sorry. :( ] 
• Using the neon pink eyeliner, line your lower lashline and this time, blend it out using the matte hot pink eyeshadow. This is a real pop of colour. 
• Now, if you have steady hands, do your thing, girl! Line the eyes! If you're like me, however, take a card/paper and line it up underneath the black liquid liner and draw a sharp pink line. Extend it as far as you want. Make sure to connect it to the lashline. Set that line with the hot pink eyeshadow. 

STEP 23: 

• Continue with the rest of your makeup, if you haven't already done it. 
• Step back, check if everything is balanced and even. Obviously, you are doing two eyes. So, make sure the wings are even, and all that stuff. 

That's it. You're done! Now, just pair this off with a good lip colour [I personally suggest either a soft pinkish nude for a soft look or a hot pink for a bold and dramatic look], a bit of contouring, a soft pink blush, and you're good to go! 

Tips: 

• Since the eyes are quite heavy, even without steps 22-23, take time to do your brows. Make them nice and defined. This will ensure that your eyes don't overpower your face. 
• As I've said earlier, it is best to do your eyes first before doing your foundation. 
• Obviously, you can experiment with different shadow texture. I used frosty ones because those are what I have. You can choose other textures such as shimmery, satin, and matte. 
• If you are using a frosty/shimmery shade, use matte/satin/creme for your lips and matte for your blush. Avoid using shimmery blushers. If you want a bit of glow to your face, just use a bit of highlighter where you need it. 
• I don't suggest skipping the contouring part. Contouring works wonders to your face and balances everything out. 
• If you prefer to take the dramatic look up another notch, use a pair of dramatic false lashes. 

That's it for my first ever eye makeup tutorial. If you have any other requests, inquiries, or suggestions, just leave a comment below. If you liked this tutorial, make sure to follow my blog, follow me in twitter, and find me in facebook. 

First row: Wearable look || Second & Third row: Dramatic look 

Thanks for dropping by! 

"So soft and pink like a delicate rose. So cute and sweet like the blush on your nose!"

Product Review: Shawill Vogue Noble Steady Color Lipstick

Product name: Shawill Vogue Noble Steady Color Lipstick 

Shade name: Shade No. 7

Net weight: 3.8g

Price: Php. 128.00

Place of purchase: SM Fairview Department Store

Date of purchase: 2^nd of January

Red is one of my absolute favourite colours. That is why red lipstick is a staple in my makeup arsenal.

Last January, I was roaming around the cosmetic section of the Department Store of SM Fairview. I was canvassing for the possible products I would be using for our promenade last February [I like to prepare ahead of time].  I did my usual rounds and when I got to the Shawill booth, I browsed the shelves in search of a particular product I’ve been eyeing for quite sometime. I was looking for the Shawill Vogue Noble Steady Color Lipstick [some bloggers just refer to it as Vogue Noble lipstick]. Now, on to the actual review.

Packaging: The product comes in a black and silver box. I find it rather attractive since it’s simple and I’m fond of the colours. The box itself is sturdier than most I’ve encountered. Important details and descriptions are found on the box. This includes ingredients, license details, and expiration date.

For the casing, the lipstick is housed in a sleek and simple silver coloured packaging. It is made of plastic, yet it looks professional because at first glance, it may be mistaken for metal. The material is sturdy and so far, I haven’t detected any flaws or defects.

What I don’t like about the packaging is that the box and the tube itself have different labels that confuse me. The box says, “Shawill Shining Glitter Lipstick” (at the back) and “Vogue Noble Lipstick” (on the top portion of the box) while the tube says “Steady Colour Lipstick” (on the outside) and “Vogue Noble” (on the inner tube). I’m utterly confused, but as far as I know, the Shining Glitter Lipstick is an entirely different product. If I remember correctly, that one has a red casing [or was it brown? Lol].

Products claims:

“3D photosensitivity granule and multi-angle refraction pearly lustre. Ultra strong natural moisture ingredient make the lip lustre water abundant, long time maintenance keep moisten, molds the bright three-dimensional lip colour. The pearl bright feeling provides rich sparkles ray, soft tender and lasting stable.”

-       Product description on the box

That wasn’t really all that helpful, but basically, the lipstick is said to provide moisture [it claims to have Vitamin E and Water Microspheres], lustre, and long-lasting colour that keeps your lips soft and tender at the same time.

Ingredients:

Mineral Oil, Lanolin, Vaseline, 2-Ethylhexyl Palmitate (emollient), Ozokerite Wax (mineral derived wax), Bees Wax, Candelillia Wax, Tocopheryl acetate (Vitamin E), Butyl Hydroxy Anisole (antioxidant), Propyl Paraben (preservative), D&C Red 6 Barium Lake(colorant), D&C Red 7 Calcium Lake (colorant), Iron Oxide Red (pigments), Iron Oxide Brown (pigments), Iron Oxide Yellow (pigments), FD&C 5 Aluminum Lake (colorant), Titanium Dioxide (white pigment/reflectant), Pearlescent Pigments

[Someone, please, give me a cookie. The ingredients were written for ants (very, very tiny print) and I had no idea what those ingredients were, so I had to do research for that. It took effort! :P Haha]

Consistency: The consistency of this lipstick is very creamy, yet glides on thinly. It practically melts upon contact, giving it a smooth and bordering watery application [I suppose those are the water microspheres it claims to contain]. You really need a lip brush for this if you want a precise application. A lipliner would also help prevent any bleeding. Personally, though, I haven’t experienced any bleeding even without a lipliner [but, maybe that’s just me]. On the lips, it feels thin and almost balm-like. You definitely do not want to go rubbing your lips together absentmindedly while wearing this.

Finish: It gives off a shiny, glossy finish. It is not advisable to use lipgloss on top of this because first of all, it is unnecessary [unless you like the oil-slicked lips look], and second, because gloss may cause this product to slip and slide, run and bleed [Oh, how morbid! Haha :) ]. As the day progresses, it loses its glossy finish, but the colour remains. Don’t get me wrong, though. This product is non-drying. Well, at least for me [Given the consideration that I often have very dry lips].

Shade: The shade I purchased, No. 7, is a red colour with blue undertones. Although, for some reason, when it comes to photography, it sometimes registers as a warm red. I’m not sure if the problem is with my lighting, my camera, or the light-reflecting ingredients in this lipstick. Unfortunately, the pictures I took of the swatches do not give justice to this lipstick’s gorgeous colour. [They’re close enough, but I just can’t seem to catch the bluish tone in the colour which I find very unique.] :(

Pigmentation: I rarely encounter a lipstick with a thin texture with high pigmentation. Usually, those qualities never mix together. The most common scenario is that lipsticks on the thinner side are sheerer while drier, thicker, creamier lipsticks are packed with colour. In this case, however, they managed to combine comfort with colour. Superb! *thumbs up*

Swatches: 

Scent: I don’t detect any scent from this product. That’s a very good plus point for me because my nose is sensitive to scents and I personally prefer my products to be unscented.

Taste/Flavour: Just as it is unscented, it is also unflavoured. That’s also a good thing because I have a habit of licking my lips a lot when I like the flavour of my lip product.

Longevity: Hands down, the best long-lasting lip product I have ever tried. I have this curse wherein lip products really don’t adhere to my lips well and they tend to disappear quickly. Most long wear lipsticks last for about 3-4 hours on me, without eating or drinking. This one was able to last me for an entire day with eating and drinking.

My first test run for this was on a shopping spree with my friend. Unfortunately, I was not able to take photos that day. We had lunch and late afternoon snacks that day and the lipstick had minimal and graceful, even fading unlike most lipsticks that will leave you with awkward looking ombre lips.

The second time I wore this was during our prom. I changed lip colour during the evening, after eating. It lasted for 5 hours [because I removed it when I got home], and it still left a vibrant stain that remained until morning. It became part of my post-prom-hangover [LOL].

My only problem would probably be the transferring. Although, the product did not claim to be transfer-proof, I still prefer something that really adheres well to the point that I could just apply it and forget about it without worrying.

Warnings/Precautions: This is precisely why I really put a lot of effort into providing information with regards to the ingredients. Some people are allergic to certain ingredients and some people are just concerned about what they place on themselves. Personally, the ingredients listed do not bother me, however, some people may be more sensitive to these elements. Some ingredients that may be a cause for concern are Mineral Oil, Lanolin, and Propyl Paraben. 

Overall performance: I really love this product and it is currently my favourite red lipstick. For the price and quality, I would say that this is a really good buy that would be worth your money.

Re-purchase?
Most certainly!

Recommendation: I would recommend this product to people who are on a tight budget and want the best value for their money when it comes to buying cosmetic products. 

I deducted .5 because it is difficult to apply without the use of a lipbrush.

"The lady rouged her pretty pout; the striking red was talked about!" 

That's all for the review. Thank you for dropping by! 

My Hair Story: Short-haired and Loving It!

Warning: Photo-heavy post *derp face*

That was me a few hours ago, posing for my laptop's camera with my cat, Maki.

For most of my life, I’ve had long hair. The words “cut” and “trim” were non-existent in my hairstyle dictionary back then. I used to sport braids in a multitude of variations. It was a lot of fun having a head full of hair. I was never really adventurous with hairstyle options when I was younger. During my grade school years, I just let my mother braid it however she wishes and I would always be happy with the end result.

I rocked those pigtail-braids :P Hahaha

In high school, however, I started to change. From having hair that was never actually cut, I suddenly found myself getting my hair styled at a salon. That was my first official haircut. From having hair that reached my hips, I settled for a bust-length cut with side bangs to the right and layers. At that time, I started wearing curlers to sleep so that I would wake up with curly hair which I’d either let loose or tie into a ponytail. 

"I settled for a bust-length cut with side bangs to the right and layers."
Left: Newly cut hair || Right: Curled hair 

After a few months, I got sick of the curlers and I just settled for nothing but plain lugay (let down/let loose) style. On rare occasions, I would have my hair in a braid [which I only wore after I read the Hunger Games because I was inspired by Katniss Everdeen]. I was pretty much doing nothing with my hair again during my Freshman year. That changed again when March came along. I have no idea what compelled me to do it, but I had my hair cut to a simple, single-length bob. How did it feel? Well, at first I was nervous. I mean, I had long hair for most of my life. After the cut itself, I felt incredibly happy. Finally, I tried out something different, something new. During that time, that was the best decision I’ve ever made.

Newly cut hair (Bob) [I was wearing the same shirt :P)

I kept that cut and let it be for another year. By the end of my Sophomore year, I had my hair back to bust-length, so I had it restored to a bob, which I once again had for a long time. Summer vacation on that same year, I found my hairstyle to be rather boring. So, without thinking much about it, I had my hair dyed red [Probably because of my obsession for Gerard Way’s red hair phase]. I had that hair colour for about six months before I had it restored to its original brunette state.

My red hair phase :)
Left: Newly dyed hair || Right: My hair colour in natural light

By the time I was in my Junior year of high school, I had my hair up to past my shoulders [My hair grows fast]. For a few months, I had my hair tied up in an extremely tight, slicked back bun. Reason? I joined the C.O.C.C./C.A.T. organization and it was a requirement for the cadettes to have their hair fixed in that manner. This, however, took its toll on the condition of my hair. The pressure from the tight ‘do, plus the added sun exposure during trainings caused major hair fall. I was left with pretty much 1/3 of the amount of hair I used to have. It wasn’t very pretty. I lived with that problem for a long time, even long after I got removed from the organization [for health reasons]. The state of my hair was utterly depressing. So, I sought out ways to solve the problem.

The damage with my hair was really bad, so, even though my hair grows fast, the amount of lost hair was still not replaced. By November, I decided to have my hair cut again. This time, it was a boy’s cut. Yes, after living with long – medium length hair for most of my life, I finally decided to have it cut short short. It was officially short. And guess what? I was happy! Happier that I have ever been for getting a haircut. It was out of my comfort zone, and yet, it was really enjoyable. I couldn’t stop messing with my hair for at least 2 weeks post-cut. My favourite part was the fact that my bald areas (panot) were no longer visible. I thoroughly enjoyed the style. It did get me into a sticky situation wherein people teased me a lot, called me names like “tomboy”, “lesbian”, and “Miley Cyrus” [Haha]. I didn’t mind. I was happy AND comfortable! I had no problems with it except for the fact that when you have short hair, it is easier to notice hair growth. Within two months, I was already yearning for another cut, but I held back because we still had our prom. Speaking of prom, I was honestly a little worried at first because I didn’t want to look plain during prom. However, my stylist/makeup artist was a genius! [She’s the only one who touches my hair after the first cut. She really knows what’s best for your hair. *Double thumbs up*]

Left: Newly cut hair (boy cut) || My hair 'do during prom

Fast forward to this morning, I went to my usual stylist because I already found the length of my hair bothersome. My scalp was being exposed again because of the length weighing my hair down and I was already able to tie it into a baby ponytail (which I do not like}. So, wearing a beanie, I payed her another visit and told her that I wanted a trim. At first, she was just trimming it. Then, I brought up the idea of having a minor side shave. She said it wasn’t going to work for my hair since the texture is way too fine. I felt saddened, but accepted the fact I couldn’t get a side shave. She then inquired as to why I wanted one. I explained that I wanted to try something else just so that I could have something new again. Upon hearing that, she asked my permission to cut my hair shorter into a pixie cut much like the one Emma Watson had. I hesitated, but agreed. So, there I was, watching hair fall to the floor and onto my lap. Minutes later, I looked into the mirror and mentally said, “Whoa!” It was better than my last cut, in my opinion. I was definitely a lot happier with my current cut. My stylist and mother agreed that it was better than the previous one because this cut doesn’t cover my ear like the other one used to.

I wanted something different, so my stylist took inspiration from the beautiful Emma Watson.

Basically, I love changes. The more spontaneous and drastic, the better. My purpose for sharing my hair story is because I want to let people know that changes can either make or break your look, but they should not be perceived as scary. Just a fun fact, before I had my boy cut, I photoshopped my face onto a girl with that hairstyle just so I could have an idea of how it would look on me. I also photoshopped my hair red before I dyed it in real life. See? Strategy. [Teehee!] It’s all about confidence. You should make changes not to impress other people, rather, to make you feel better about yourself. Happiness is the key to confidence. Even the slightest changes could make the biggest difference to the aura of your personality.

Top: Freshman year class photo || Middle: Sophomore year class photo || Bottom: Junior year class photo

So, there it is. That’s the end of my hair story. For now [lol]. How about you? What changes have you made for yourself?